Hate to admit it but, sometimes it's the worst times of your life that leads you to do something good. That's what happened here. Today, 14-10-2017, can be considered as not a very good day, I thought of writing this blog. Something I think which will be useful to the rest of you who is reading this. Might help you in the future.
The problem actually started the previous day. It's the effects that I suffer right now. Let's get to the content shall we? Well, we all know this is a free world. Everyone is permitted to do whatever he or she likes. Suppose you want to sit somewhere. What will you do? You will sit right? Exactly. But if there is someone who is already sitting there will you be able to sit? No. You ask that person if he can move so that you can sit. Suppose it's not a chair, but a bench. And that person is lying down for no reason covering the whole area of the bench. This means he is taking away your freedom of using something which you too can rightfully use. And if he denies to give you space you will surely get angry won't you? Now let's look at another scenario. You just bought a new phone when you only had just enough money for the phone only. And you decide to take a video of someone to test its camera. You place the phone in such a way that the person thinks that you are taking his video. But you actually don't intend to take his video. You are just bluffing. When he asks if you have taken the video you say yes at first simply for fun. Then after two times you say the truth that you did not. But the person doesn't believe you. He threatens that he will break your new phone for a void reason. You protest. I mean, come on, someone is threatening that he will break your phone for no reason at all. You are even ready to show him your whole phone to prove that you didn't take his video. But still he keeps on threatening. You protest back again. Fortunately, after sometime the argument is over. You are back to your normal life. But then just as you thought everything is over, the person brings up the problem again. You again say that you didn't take the video. But he just won't give up. Surely you get angry again. But then just as things were coming to an end, someone, let's call him 'y', comes in the middle and starts to shout at you for no reason. He brings up things you haven't said during the previous argument and shouts at you. He just starts commanding you. He commands you on how to live your life. He makes you feel like you are his slave. The actual problem would have ended between you and 'x' (the person who you were actually arguing with in the first place). But then 'y' came in for no reason and just poured oil into blazing fire. The funny fact is, y has no appropriate relation with x. They both just live in the same room. So are you. But does that make him your master? I don't think so. So you only get more annoyed. I mean a normal person like me will get annoyed. Anyways, y just keeps commanding you. You end up in an oral fight. The day doesn't end well.
The next day you feel all new again. Forgets about what happened the previous day. Doesn't talk to anyone about it. Just leaves the matter. But then again y brings up the problem. He just won't leave you. We'll this is what happened to me on the morning of the 14th of October 2017. When this person y brought up a problem that I forgot, I just blew up. More angry than the last day. He claimed that I called person x a word I don't wish to reveal and that I called him repeatedly. I thought to myself, what the hell is wrong with this world!!! I clearly know that I didn't say that word. But I was overpowered when the two of them kept on claiming that I said that word. Just think, the problem started with a video. Now it's come to something completely different. He said that he can't adjust with me and that I can leave the room. I said I won't. There the argument was over.
Why would anyone try to command me. Who is he to command me!!! What right and authority does he have to decide how I should live!!! He is not related to me in anyway. It's OK if he is my parent. But no! He's not. Then why should I kneel down to some 'no one' who just happens to be in the room I stay?
So, why am I saying all this to the open world? Well, one reason is that I have no one here who will understand me and my mindset. Second, well, we (me and my friends) started this blog so that we can MAKE THIS WORLD A BETTER PLACE. So I thought of telling the world that YOU ARE FREE TO LIVE THE WAY YOU WANT TO LIVE!!! No one has the right to decide how you should live unless they are actually above you (eg: parents). That too is for a short period of time. Until you are old enough and that they feel that you are mature enough to lead your own life. So, let no one decide and command you on how to live your personal life. This is a free world. I repeat THIS IS A FREE WORLD!!! YOU DON'T HAVE TO LIVE TO PLEASE ANYONE!!!
YOU DON'T HAVE TO LOVE SOMEONE ELSE'S LIFE!!!
